I’ve been avoiding spending some alone time with my mum lately cause I know she will be asking about funnyman for sure. I know that she knows what’s going on. And I do not want to discuss the matter with her. So yesterday, she asked me upfront.
Mak : Can I ask, are you getting married this year?
Me: What? no. NO i’m not getting married this year.
Mak: What’s going on between you and ***?
Me: I don’t know, hard to say.
Mak: Tell me the truth. I’m asking you outright. What happened?
Me: Why?
Mak: I have set aside some money for your wedding. You are my only daughter. So I want to give you a nice wedding. But if its not going to happen this year, I want to use some of the money first for something else. So what happened?
Me: Well, he asked for a 2 month break. He needed to think things through.
Mak: What does that mean?
Me: I don’t know, I guess since we are already physically apart now, he wants nothing to do with me emotionally too for 2 months. Total separation. Out of his life. So he can evaluate whether he wants to go on with the relationship
Mak: How did that happen?
Me: I don’t know, it started when I wanted to talk about our relationship. where is it heading. I just need to know whether it is heading anywhere at all. Now that he is in my life I need to align all my life plan with whatever he has in mind. But one thing got to another and it escalated and turned into something else.
Mak: Erm…you want to talk about it?
Me: No
Mak: mmm….ok. If you’re sure. What happen now?
Me: I don’t know, I have to go on with my life.
Mak: So you think its ok for me to use some of the money?
Me: No. Use ALL.
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